I am not a love guru or a relationship counselor, am just one of you with a more than average observance. Many of my friends are in relationships and many of them are single. I have tried to keep both the categories in mind while writing this. The things listed below are the qualities which we think make a boyfriend perfect [because perfect is not a myth]. 

The most basic thing you need in a guy is brain. If he's hot and lack of intelligence, sorry it's not gonna last. Himbo comes with an expiry date. You'll be tired of their cute faces and hot bodies because they no longer make sense.

2. Smartness

He might be the topper of his class but what if he can't handle situation when he's supposed to. What if he can't take a right decision at the right time. He need not to be a geek but smart enough to handle things.

3. Understanding

Without understanding you're relationship gonna fall apart, no matter how close you guys are. If he doesn't understand that you're not okay when you say fine, if he doesn't know what does your whatever means. You gonna have a hard time. 

4. Loving

You know he loves you but what he doesn't express how he feels about you. It's the small gestures he make to make you happy. It could be some lovey-dovey text messages, surprises, voice notes when you're least prepared for it. Girls crave for love. Your relationship is never too old to show your love for her.

5. Caring

Love is incomplete without care. He should care for you like a baby. His care shows how much you mean to him. You wouldn't want to spend your life with a person who doesn't care when you're down with fever or feeling low.

6. Should make you feel special

He chooses you over zillions of people. That proves that you've something special in you. So why not showing it off once in a while. It's not as if we don't know that we're special but it feels ecstasy when you know that you're the apple oh his eye.

7. Humor

We have a soft corner for guys who make us laugh. Wouldn't it be awesome to spend your life with a person who cracks silly jokes just to make you laugh. I am not being a grandma but laughter is really a good therapy.

8. Best Friend

I know people these days start dating over a blind date, some weird apps, via and via some pals, through social networking sites. Personally, i don't think that's the right way. You can't get to know a person over a mere date. No wonder why relationships these days don't work out. You need to be friends first. Spend time on knowing each other better. Nothing's better than dating your best friend because he knows you for what you are not what you pretend to be.

9. A good Human

You can't be a good friend if you aren't a good human. You can't be good enough for anything unless you are a good human. You need to be good human being to be a good spouse.

11. Expressive

I've seen guys who have so much inside them but they can't express it. We love to hear from you. We expect you to talk non-stoppable just like we do. Girls love guys who talk their heart out with them.  

12. Inspiring

We all have those rough days when we don't want to do anything. The days when we just hate our lives and want to leave everything behind. In today's world of competition we need someone to inspire us. To motivate us and to make us believe that the best is yet to come.

13. Should share at least 2 hobbies with you

What if you're an outgoing person and he loves being a couch potato. What if you love reading and he's all into Metallica. Hard to conjure right? Wouldn't it amazing if you both share some of your hobbies. You explore new places together. You both suggest each other good reads. Splendid that'd be.

14. Personality Chameleon

Girls have the ability to change their mood, their thoughts change within a second. One moment they would fight with you over a silly issue and the very next moment they'd want you to come over because they miss you. You should be fast enough to forget what she said before and try to grasp what's going on now. Sounds weird but you'll learn this with time.

15. Should be a fan of your favorite sitcoms

He should understand what you want him to do, when you say seven seven seven seven [in Monica's tone]. He should know how to deal with your Dark Passenger. It's not Westeros and Pentos, neither you're Jon Snow. You need to know everything unlike him. Nothing is more depressing than your cold reaction when she calls you her Lobster.

16. A Family guy

We love our family more than anything else. We expect you to love and consider our family just like yours.

17. Should be friends with at least one of your girlfriend

He's supposed to be friends with at least one of your girlfriend not just to plan surprise party for you but also to know what's going wrong between you two. He might not like your guy friends and vice versa. So why not make him friends with your favorite girl.

18. A Planner
You wouldn't want to spoil your weekend just because you don't have any plan. Usually girls are supposed to do the plannings, why not you plan something for her, for a change?

19. A good Son
A guy who's a great son and cares about his parents is likely to be a better lover. The guy who doesn't respect his parents can never respect you. The bitter truth.

20. Strength
No..we don't want Salmaan Khan. We just want a guy who can protect us from a bad crowd, nobody could stare when you walk with him. A guy who makes you feel safe and secure in this bad times.

21.  He should love you from the core of his heart 

The above 20 things might not make sense but the most important thing you need, to make it work, is Unconditional Love. Trust me she wouldn't mind if you don't have any of the above qualities as long as you love her madly. We crave for love, love can make us forgive and forget stuff.

If you truly love her these above things wouldn't sound weird and you'll understand everything spontaneously.

Assignment : Theme based manipulated Alphabets

Theme : Candlelight & Shadow. 

Subject : Graphic Design Level 1

Assignment : Capturing alphabets around us.

Objective : To enhance our observation skills.